Do men run from women? I never really dove into this thought but, it is a concept we should consider. Are there in fact men who are aware that there is a great woman in front of them but, they do not seize the opportunity to court her because of “projects” they still need to complete within themselves?
Hmmmm…..
In my opinion, men don’t run from women, unless I’m old (which I am getting up there in age) but, I have never heard of a man running from a woman. I have heard of a man being too intimidated by women but, never running from one. Maybe these new aged kids are scared of women but, not any man I know.
I think that men who have set goals for themselves and have conditioned themselves to be disciplined in making sure they reach those goals are not going to cater to a relationship because it is not a priority for them. Ladies, we should respect that. Let that man be great. If he wants to go conquer the world, let him go do it. Support him as much as you are willing to, BUT DO NOT SIT YOUR ASS AT HOME WAITING FOR HIM TO BE READY! And if it will cause damage to your heart to keep communication with him….then Honey, LET HIM GO. You can only be patient but so much.
But, let’s also consider this, You can be a great woman and still not be the caliber of woman a certain man needs to be conducive to his life. I know a lot of great men but, that does not mean they are a good fit for me. If that is the case, don’t let it hurt your ego.
We women are naturally conditioned to support, to love, to cater. So it may be harder for us to come to terms with the facts that a man is not ready for us. No one is to blame.
Ladies, you have to understand the reality of your relationship with a man. Fellas, you too. Understand what you are able and willing to give or not give. And make it clear to those who may have affections for you..
Find yourself before finding your husband/wife.