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So I've got a little time today and decided to answer some of your messages.

1. How do you tell someone that you want to be with them without ruining the friendship?

This one is a little hard, and there's really no right answer. You have to be willing to let go of the friendship if the other person doesn't have the same feelings for you. Because once that cat is out of the bag, there's no going back. 💝

2. I'm trying to plan something for my girl, what's a good date night idea?

The answer to this is based on what she likes. Does she like getting dressed up and going out? Does she like gifts? Does she like affection? A good date night for me is a man letting me know he wants to treat me to dinner and to wear something nice. He picks me up and gives me flowers, we go to a nice quiet restaurant and possibly a lounge afterwards. By the end of the night I'll be excited for adult activities. 💦

3. How are your previous lovers doing?

There's really only one who I really still communicate with. Poppa is not Poppa-ing right now. He's doing some things. And I'm going to touch base with him later. I'll just going to leave it at that. 🤣

4. What's your career?

I'm an HR professional. I've been doing it for 12 years now. I'm certified and have degrees relating to the field. I also freelance my expertise. Making as much money as I can because ain't nothing cheap these days. 🤑

5. What do you think about Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce?

I'm happy for them. They're both at the top of their careers, and they seem to support each other and enjoy each other's company. 🎤

6. What's a secret about yourself no one knows?

Well, I can tell any of those because then everyone will know. But I'll share something interesting about myself: I'm a sensitive lover. I like love songs. I like being complimented, thought of, and feel loved. Also, when I'm really into someone, I want them to be happier than me, so I tend to make extra efforts to make them happy. 💕

7. What's something you'd tell you're 25 year old self if you could?

Ummm, I don’t think I'd tell her anything because all of my decisions and experiences in life got me here, and I like where I'm at. ️🌞

8. Do you think it's a good idea to get back with your ex?

I think it depends on the 2 people. If you want to get back together then go for it. Even if it was a casual thing and you 2 stopped fooling with each other for a while but want to start up again. It's up to you. The only thing that would make it a bad idea is if the person is a bad influence and doesn't make you feel 'seen'. Then no, don't do it. 🩷