For me, I don’t think of sex as just that. I’m a bit of an old fashioned girl, I told you before, I value intimacy and only sharing my goods with one man…I am not rated “E” for Everyone. And as much as I may like to show skin and friendly with people, I am NOT open to doing anything that isn’t significant to my values. I have to actually like the person and like to be around them, talk to them, hear from them, and enjoy their company. So if the regular sex isn’t great, I’m not going to be very interested in the make up sex. I also believe it depends on how much you miss the person and what good things you remember about the person that makes the reconciliation sex so amazing, because there is so much pent up emotions and unspoken conversations that you are letting go and giving in to each other.

Here are some of your thoughts…(I had to clean up the language from some of you freaks. 👀😂)

Reader 1: I don’t know what it is about make up sex, but it is top tier! You just go at it like the world is ending. My man poled me down so good I couldn’t move afterwards. And the things he was saying to me when he was rearranging my organs! I fell in love with that man all over again. That was his way of telling me he missed me and if it’s like that! Then he needs to miss me again and again! 😂

• Not rearranging your organs?!?! I do love the talking. — Tell me you miss me, tell me how good it is, tell me you’re sorry, tell me we’re good, tell me the issue is dead, tell me we’re moving on, tell me you want me, tell me everything. 🔊👂

Reader 2: Make up sex is the best ever! Last year I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. I moved out and everything. My new place was 15 minutes away and there is one grocery store between us. We ended up running into each other after work, it was awkward because I didn’t know what to say so I just looked at him and said Hi. He started asking me how I was and we had a 30 minute conversation in the produce section. We had not spoken in 2 month prior to this. He seemed to be doing really good so I figure this was our closure. That weekend, he showed up at my apartment. He didn’t know my apt number I only told him where I was living when we talked at the grocery store. The leasing office called me and wanted to make sure it was okay to give my information out to him Lol, they thought he might have been a threat to me. He came up to my apt and we talked some more and then one thing led to another. I can’t explain how good it was! And it’s not like he did anything different but it just felt amazing, he did everything just right. Thank god I waxed earlier that week!

• This sounds like a scene from a movie. Sometimes you can’t fight that urge to see someone and realize whatever you were arguing about isn’t important anymore. Absence can make the heart grow fonder. ❤️✨

Reader 3: It depends on who it is. Make up sex ain’t good with everybody. A man has to know my body. He has to know how I like it. If he don’t then it’s just wasting my time and I don’t have time for basic make up sex. Blow my mind or go somewhere else.

• I agree. If you don’t know what I like then how are you going to please me? And I’m a talker, if you are doing something I like, I’ll tell you. If I’m not talking, then I’m not into it, so I love it when a man pays attention to my cues. 💦

Reader 4: The best make up sex I had was when my dude stopped me in mid argument, grabbed my neck started kissing me and then picked me up and threw me on the bed. He ripped my panties and started eating it and then came back up and put the just the tip in and said, You gonna stop arguing with me?, I didn’t know what was going on! He kept telling me to stop moving and take it. All I said was “Yes Daddy”.

• 👀 My face turned as red as my hair color reading this response! 😳😂 I felt like I was getting flashbacks to a similar situation. I don’t mind being told what to do in these types of situations. Look me dead in the eyes and put some bass in your voice when you do it. 🙈🙊🙉

Reader 5: I was in college and I was messing with this guy for a year. He was no good. The typical pretty boy on campus. He was always lying and talking to every other girl and I got tired of it and cussed him out over the phone and hung up on him. Not even 10 minutes later he comes knocking on my door and we are yelling at each other my TA had to come out to check on me. The guy was still in my room and while he was yelling he’s taking off his clothes and grabbing me and kissing on me. Then he started taking off my clothes. It was such a turn on. I’m glad my roommate wasn’t there! He made me [climax] 4 times that night! I didn’t know I could even do that!

• So you two are just hollering at each other while you’re letting him strip you down naked? I guess the end result was worth it. FOUR TIMES??!! 👀😲

Reader 6: I was so fed up with this one man I was dating, but his 🍆 was everything! Every time I wanted to leave him he would come and press up against me so I can feel it on my 🍑 and then he would whisper, So you gonna leave all this? And when he was in me he would say, This is my sh*t. You ain’t giving my sh*t to nobody else. That man was toxic but I bent over each time! LOL.

• Lmao! I don’t know if I would hate or love it if a man did that! Some men just know how to finesse you and when they start walking closer to you, then you just know you’re done for and you feel so ashamed for giving in but it’s all for the good of the glory! 😂

Reader 7: My husband and I were separated for 8 months one time. We only talked when it was about the kids. One of our mutual friends was having a dinner party and we both went but not together and everyone knew we were separated. I thought he was going to bring someone because I heard that he was dating again. Our friends are known to throw big parties so I got all dressed up, did my hair, got my makeup done and was looking right! I didn’t bring anyone and I saw my husband didn’t bring anyone either. When my husband saw me he acted like we never met before. He played like a stranger and came to introduce himself and asked what my name was. The whole night he kept sending me drinks and coming over to give me compliments. I was turned on and played along. We ended up sneaking into laundry room for an hour. He pulled up my dress and lifted up my leg and we couldn’t stop. We were like teenagers! We’re now back together and every now and then we play the “stranger game” when we go out.

• I think that is so sexy. When you drop all the problems you had and do a refresh on the relationship. Like we no longer know each other from before and we are meeting each other again for the first time. Sometimes you need to push that reset button. 🤗

Reader 8: This just happened last week. I was mad a my fiancé during Christmas because of issues I have with his family. We got into a big fight. I even left my ring on the kitchen table and got myself a hotel for the weekend. I didn’t tell him where I was going to be and I didn’t answer any of his calls or text messages. I knew his work schedule so I went home to get some of my stuff. He didn’t go to work and was at home and when I walked in the first thing he says to me was, Why you haven’t been answering me? I walked away from him and went to our room to start getting my clothes. He kept getting in front of me and I don’t know how it happened but we started kissing and I ended up naked and on top of him riding him like there was no tomorrow. And when he was on top banging my back out, he kept saying, You gonna answer me next time right?! I need to know where you at! And all I could get out was , Yes I’m going to answer every time!

• WHAT?! What do you mean you don’t know how it happened? 👀😆

These next two are from men. Not many words, but still enough to get the point across 👀😆. It’s funny because I recently and literally just told someone that my site is NOT FOR MEN😆. There is nothing on here men need to read but I guess my audience is more diverse than I anticipated. (And again, I am cleaning up some of the language. 😂)

Reader 9: Anytime my girl act up, I know what she needs. A good 15-20 minutes of this 🍆 and she good for the next 24-48 hours. That’s what yall women need anyway is a man to shut you up because yall just always wanna argue. Just shut tf up and come here and get this 🍆.

• Sir….👀 sometimes you do need to talk to your girl and find out what the issue is. Sex isn’t always the problem solver...but it sounds like it’s working for you so I’m just going to mind my business. 🙈🙊🙉😆

Reader 10: The 🐱 after you done arguing is the best. It’s warmer and wetter and she let me do more. It’s good when it’s been a minute and it’s tight and then I know she ain’t been nowhere.

• Wait what??!! Is this really true?!?! 👀 See, I’m not about to play with you guys! Lol. I don’t even know what to say with this one, I’ll just let the readers take over. 🙈🙊🙉

I swear, you readers thrill me! I think another part of make up sex is the excitement of it all. You don’t know what's going to happen but you’re just going with it and letting go of any anger or resentment you had before. So you are breaking down all your walls to have this euphoric feeling all throughout your body, like a high. And in those moments, nothing else matters but you and the other person.

Thank you everyone who shared your thoughts and whenever I decide to step out and get involved with someone again, I’m going to be thinking of some of these scenarios AND the ones from the other post! 👀🙈🙊🙉 And I’m definitely not telling him about my site! 😆